Another Night of Partying

Ok to start off I am pissed that my wife wants to go out to the bar without me, I never go without her and the only things I do outside of the house and work is 3 times a week I go and work out playing basketball, and she works out 4 times a week at her friends home, Lorena. To give some back story I don't trust her friend Lorena because she has in the past smoked pot and hung out with people at her home with her young child when her husband was out of town on the slope working. She has on several occations done whatever it takes to get free drinks from guys at the bar.

The last time my wife went out to the bar I had to go 10 miles and pick her up from the god damn bar at 2:35am! To get more into it I was with the kids from 9pm to 2:35am, seriously WTF! Continueing on I was home little more then 15 minutes before her friend Lorena showed up and picked her up, as she was leaving I handed her our brand new Motorola Hint, and asked her what time she would be home; as you would expect a time so if no one called then I would be able to go looking for her, she quickly said in a few hours, I took that as 2 or maybe 3 and I asked her not to drink and she said she wouldn't. Anyway around 2:10am I called her friends phone because I had been trying to call our cellphone all night and I never got an answer and I even tried her friends phone but with no luck, but this time she answered and I asked for my wife. Lorena said let me go get her; huh funny my wife told me she would be with her all night, anyway after about 2 minutes my wife was on the phone and I could hear she was drunk. I asked when she was coming home and she said in a bit, then she told me the phone was stolen and she started crying and I tried to comfort her and ask if she wanted me to come pick her up well in her drunked state she immediatly stopped crying and calmly said no! So I started getting pissed and yelled at her that I was coming to get her wether she wanted me to or not, I threw the phone and broke it. I went into her cousins room and asked him to watch the kids and use his car to go pick them up since we had a headlight malfuctioning. I went about 110 mph to the bar and when I got there I couldn't find her so I went over to the Riverside and found Lorena but my wife wasnt with her she was sitting at the bar talking to a guy and I was furious with her. I told her to get her ass up as we were going home. I could smell the liquir on her and the entire time she kept getting mad saying I knew this would happen your pissed about the phone. I kept telling her no I pissed she went to the bar and drank and was talking to guys. When we got home and I calmed down I asked her if she was drinking and she told me no! I knew she was lyning but said fuck it and went to sleep.

That was in August and I havent let her go to the bars without me since, we have gone three times, one including with Lorena and her husband and me and Chris hung out for a bit but he found his friends and I sat there by myself and had to go up and pull her to the side and dance with her. She came once and pulled me onto the floor, anyway after 3 hours it was time for us to go to the babysitters and pick up the kids at the correct time but when I reminded my wife she said no, lets stay longer! I spent 5 minutes telling her no and her friend came up and asked me to let her stay longer and I told her fuck no! Chris, Myself and my wife went outside after telling Lorena and had to wait for her and after Chris went in to get her we started walking to the car and she ran in front of us to talk to a friend, me Chris and my wife got into his car and waited for a car to move and when it did we seen her and we told her to get in the car but she wanted to stay with a friend of Chris that she didnt even know the right name, so Chris said fuck it and left after she went back inside and when we got home he sped out of our driveway towards the bar and we could tell he was pissed.

Another time we went to the bar the first time I got sick and she opted to stay there with my friend Shawn while I came home and puked my guts out. Needless to say I believe I have the right to tell her FUCK no to her going to the bar without me. I really don't trust her like I once did, she gets pissed if I even act like I will say no. Now on to tonight...

Its a friday night and she should know by now that on saturdays I work at 9am and need to wake up by 8am. Well its currently 12:38am! When she asked me if she could go I put her to a test and asked her if she left at 10pm what time does she think would be an appropreate time for her to come home, her responce ... 3AM! WHAT THE FUCK! ... anway remember I picked her up at 2:35am the first time. Now she is supposed to be the DD but I fear she is drinking. I don't trust her like I once did. Now we decided on her being home by 1am lets see if it happens.